Divorce brings about significant changes in family dynamics, especially when it comes to scheduling and dividing time with children during school breaks like summer vacation. Parents should navigate these adjustments, keeping the children’s well-being and happiness as the top priority. This requires fairness and clear communication between co-parents. In this blog, we’ll look at some practical tips and considerations for dividing kids’ summer vacation time when parents are divorced so that everyone can enjoy their summer.

When Creating the Summer Schedule

  1. Establishing a Schedule: Oftentimes, the summer schedule differs from the schedule during the year.  There’s a change in routine when kids aren’t in school, which can lead to some ambiguity when it comes to co-parenting. Clear and consistent communication between co-parents is essential when planning summer arrangements. Start by establishing a detailed schedule that outlines a clear parenting schedule during specific weeks or months of the summer. This schedule should consider each parent’s work schedule, travel plans, and the children’s activities and preferences.
  2. Flexibility and Compromise: Flexibility is key to successful co-parenting during summer vacation. Both parents should be open to negotiating and compromising on the schedule to accommodate unexpected changes or special events. Understanding that both parents are likely looking for some quality time with the children, it’s important to keep a child centered approach. The more flexible you are, the more opportunities your children will have to have meaningful time with each of their parents.

Child-Centered Decision Making: When dividing summer vacation time, prioritize the children’s needs and preferences. Consider their age, interests, and social commitments when creating their schedule. Encourage open communication with the children to ensure they feel heard and included in the decision-making process.

Maintaining Stability: Consistency and stability are crucial for children during times of transition. Aim to maintain a routine and familiarize children with the summer schedule in advance. This consistency helps children feel secure and allows them to enjoy their summer activities without unnecessary stress.

 Coordinating Activities: Coordinate summer activities and camps with the other parent to ensure both parents have opportunities to participate in their children’s experiences. Discuss financial responsibilities for summer programs and agree on a budget that accommodates both parents’ contributions.

Plan Ahead: It’s always better to start planning the children’s summer activities early so you and your co-parent know what you’re working with.  Look at when summer camps and organized activities open registration and then begin planning your parenting time accordingly. Discussion about which activities to enroll the children in are also important.


In conclusion, dividing kids’ summer vacation time when parents are divorced requires thoughtful planning, open communication, and a child-centered approach. By establishing clear schedules, prioritizing children’s needs, maintaining stability, fostering effective co-parenting relationships, and resolving disputes amicably, co-parents can create a positive and enjoyable summer experience for their children. Remember that flexibility, understanding and cooperation are essential for navigating summer arrangements.

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