One of the most common mistakes I see people make early in their divorce is rushing to hire a lawyer without considering whether that lawyer is the right fit. You’re overwhelmed, you need answers, and you want to protect yourself—but this decision is too important to make in panic mode.
As a divorce coach, I work closely with clients to help them build a team that truly supports their goals—and that starts with the right legal representation. Not every lawyer is the same, and more importantly, not every lawyer is right for you.
The Lawyer You Choose Sets the Tone for Your Entire Divorce
I’ve seen firsthand how the tone a lawyer brings to your case can either de-escalate or inflame conflict. A lawyer might have all the credentials in the world, but if their style doesn’t align with what you want—whether that’s a collaborative process or a more assertive stance—it can make an already painful process even harder.
You deserve a lawyer who:
- Listens to your goals without dismissing them
- Communicates clearly and respectfully
- Supports your objectives
- Makes you feel empowered, not intimidated
How I Help You Make the Right Choice
Many of my clients come to me unsure of what they need in a lawyer. They don’t know what questions to ask, what red flags to look for, or even that they can interview more than one person. That’s where I come in.
Here’s how I support you through the process:
- We start by getting clear on your priorities. Do you want a settlement-focused approach? Are you dealing with a high-conflict ex? What kind of communication do you respond best to?
- I help you prepare for your consultations so you know exactly what to ask, what to watch for, and how to trust your gut.
- We debrief together. After each meeting, I help you sort through your impressions and feelings, so you’re not left second-guessing your instincts.
My goal isn’t just to help you find a lawyer. It’s to help you find your lawyer—the one who aligns with your values, your goals, and your long-term well-being.
Red Flags You Shouldn’t Ignore
If a lawyer continually interrupts you, talks over you, pressures you into a path you’re not comfortable with, or makes you feel small—walk away. The right lawyer works for you, not the other way around. You have to be confident in providing your lawyer with instructions.
You Deserve the Right Team—Starting With the Right Voice in Your Corner
Your divorce is not just a legal event. It’s a deeply personal transition, and you need people in your corner who see the whole you—not just your file number.
As your coach, I’m here to guide you before the legal process begins, while it’s unfolding, and as you rebuild your life on the other side. Choosing the right lawyer is a crucial first step—and I’ll be there with you through it.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to start, I can help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Let’s talk about what you need—and how to build a team that truly supports your next chapter.